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i need teens to answer this only please!!
anyway so i have this perverted frien who likes to look at you know pictures and sites and stuff of women and he is only like 15. He is my really good friend but he is getting really perverted. I don't not want to be with him and i've already talked to him about his "habit" what should i do?

There's really nothing wrong with it. At our general age, we have a LOT of hormones. A teenager's sex drive is at his or her peak at this time. It's natural for him to be curious about sex and/or the female body. And it's okay for him to enjoy what he sees. When we look at pictures, our bodies react. For example, a picture of a kitten might make someone feel physically good, whereas a picture of a dead kitten might make them cry. Being horny isn't perverted at all, it's just another mood like sadness and good cheer. I don't mean any offense by this, but it really sounds more like your problem than his. If he's sexually harassing you that's one thing, but if all he's doing is looking at porn, that's really his business. I understand that you're concerned for your friend, but it's not hurting him (although this is up for debate), and it's most likely not hurting you. Trust me, if you stop worrying about it, the problem will go away.

And just to reassure you, I've been reading pornography for five years now and nothing bad has happened.

EDIT-Thanks for the advice, but I really don't care if you find me attractive or not.

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(Rating: 4) thanx but its kinda becoming an obessession but i'll try to ignore it and it is a little creepy maybe you should lay off the porn your self cause it isn't attractive

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