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okay, so, my dad is totally changing his views on everything now, and I don't really know how to talk to him like I used to. I mean, I could tell him anything, and now its just kinda weird. He won't let me read Seventeen until he cuts some "articles he doesn't want me to see" out. He says that I am not allowed to date (whereas in 4th grade I had a boyfriend and him and my stepmom would always be like "did you call him yet" and stuff). Him and my stepmom used to ask me how to have kids on the sims, i am not even allowed to make my sims kiss now (which I do anyways, but still). They used to be so cool and all, but now they are so overprotective. I don't go to school (homeschooled) so I don't have those kind of problems. They think that I will fall into all these stupid fads and trends and sex and drugs (yes, i love fashion, and music, and yes i do try to impress people and stuff, but only to a reasonable extent). I like this boy, who i like, just met about six months ago, but I have only seen him a couple of times. I know that he likes me, but when we get to know eachother more, and if he asks me out or something, what do i say, i mean "i have to ask my dad" or "i'll think about it" will sound like i am a baby or he might think that i don't like him and he might just look for someone else. I don't think i could do something like have a boyfriend behind my dad's back, and how can i have a boyfriend in front of his back? How do I tell my dad I like this guy and he likes me? (by the way, don't say "well, this guy hasn't even asked you out yet, and he might not ever." i am asking in advance so that when anyone does, what the hell do I say to my dad and future boyfriend?) thanx i rate :) (srry this was long, don't even answer if you're going to give some retarded answer like "hmmm...idk umm.. DON'T HAVE A BOYFRIEND!") thanx again
I agree with the person below. Talk to him about it. Explain to him that it is okay and you already know this kind of stuff. Ask him what you did that made him so overprotected and such. Let him know how you feel about this situation. Tell him that, yes he should give you some boundrys here and there, but be realistic you need space, you are a teenager (I guess?). Then if he lets go a bit, then tell him about this boy and that you are just friends but what if the time comes that you become more then that. Tell him that you won't give in to drugs, sex, and drinking. Let him know you are responsible enough to handle dating.
I hope this helps you and if you need anything else, just ask me!
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(Rating: 4) okay, but he has said my friends are going to be dating and all and i'm not, hopefully if he can see that I can make good choices, he might at least let me work on my relationship with a guy that I like, you know, without dating and all. :)