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Q: okay, so like, this is really weird. I have fantasies about doing things with my best friend...we'll say her name is Sadie... (i am totally sure I am NOT a lesbian), things like kissing and stuff. I really don't know what I should do about it. She already knows, we talked all night about this problem. She says she totally understands and she's not grossed out or anything. Is this normal? She is very pretty, and practically every boy that lays eyes on her is in love with her. I have another friend who is younger than me and actually does this stuff with her friends, but i don't feel comfortable doing anything with her. Everytime I am alone with sadie, I get that urge to want to do something. I have done that stuff tons of times before, but my parents always found out. One of the things is, I am really trying to be moral and clean. I really wanted to practice kissing, I am saving my first kiss with a guy, and I want it to be good. I want to do something with her more than I care about morals. I think it is kinda weird how I want to practice with her, but I know 100% that I'm not a lesbian, or bi. I don't have a crush on her. Can anyone explain to me how to deal with this, if it's normal, and what I should do about it? (by the way we never did anything together) I rate, PLEASE HELP ME!!
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It is 150% normal. People do this stuff all the time. If you ever watch MTV people admit to kissing the same sex. It's totally normal. If Sadie wants to practice on you as well, go for it and have fun. It is a good way to practice for your first kiss. Just try to keep it on the down low so people don't find out and expect things. You are definitly not a lezbian if you don't have intimate feelings for her. It's just a stage you are going through. If you want to talk more about this, IM me, xo mtin 33. Or drop one in my inbox! I'm on a lot!
Best of luck, Marissa
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thank you, i feel really comfortable and relieved with your answer
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Hey! I am Marissa and I'm 16. I live in South Carolina and I love to dance and laugh. I liek to give advice and help people a lot so feel free to ask me anything and I promise I will get back to you! &hearts
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: South Carolina Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 3, 2004 Answers: 395 Last Update: September 2, 2007 Visitors: 25928
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