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ok i have writen before about me not wanting to be lesbians but i just cant help it. i like boys and everything its just that when i see a girl i look at her booty, her breast, her face, and i see how big her breast and nipples are compared to what i really like. i dont mean to but it is natural i guess. anyway how can i stop being lesbian and if i cant stop how do i find a girl that is my age in my area without everybody knowing? please help me!
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You're not a lesbian unless you identify yourself as one. If you don't want to be a lesbian the answer is simple, don't call yourself a lesbian. But there is NOTHING you can do about being attracted to girls. People are attracted to people.

Every person you have ever met has been attracted to a member of the same sex atleast once. Whether it was a sexual attraction or just an appreciation of beauty, it was still attraction. Plenty of these people don't consider themselves gay. There are a lot of heterosexual women that fantasize about sex with other women, and many of them have actually had relationships with other women.

Never supress your desires. Your attraction to girls is part of you, just like the memory of going to school for the first time. There are a lot of things, good and bad, that you can't erase. These things make you real. They make you beautiful. Your sexuality is one of these things.

As for your second question, I don't really know. Become friends with lesbians, I guess? But there may be a point where you can't hide it anymore. Try getting in touch with a Gay Straight Alliance.

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(Rating: 5) hey thanks for the help! im only 13 so thats why i am scared.

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