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My guy friend wants to have sex with me and vice versa but the only thing thats stopping us(well me)is that im a little overweight and i have stretchmarks. they're really embarasing and i dont want him to see them
is their anyway to get rid of them almost completely? will he be turned off and disgusted at the sight of seeing them? and also will it hurt reallly bad my first time?(im virgin hes not)
Pleeeze help i rate 5s! thanx (link)
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I'm not going to sit here and lecture you to wait, because that probably gets really old after about the 6th time of reading it and you'll do what you want, however, there are a few things you need to keep in mind.
It hurt me very badly my first time because I was not comfortable with the guy, and therefore, my whole body was tense because I was mentally. Chances are, if you're all tensed up because all you can think about are those damned stretch marks, it will hurt for you, too. The pain only eases if you're relaxed. If you do actually go through with this, make sure there is foreplay and lubrication. Don't expect it to be amazing. A person's first time almost never is.
Stretch marks will fade over time, but your low self esteem won't unless you actively do something about it. Try to start thinking in a way that's a little higher of yourself. Low self esteem and good sexual experiences tend to not go together.
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