ask LadyGoodman



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators



I like fairies (thus why I am wearing fairy wings in the picture). Good grammar rocks, too. It doesn't have to be perfect but I get frustrated when people completely disregard it. I like every color except pink. I hate the wind. Sometimes, I carry around a little teddy bear I found at an antique store. His name is Robert. I dress very eccentrically. It's not unusual for me to wear a prairie dress one day and a Mod dress (think Austin powers) the next. I don't dye my hair, or wear much make-up. I think it's sad that no one puts any emphasis on natural beauty anymore. I think it's a good thing to be open and educated about sex and other issues that are considered taboo. I have a hard time seeing where homophobics are coming from.

Basically, I'm just some weird teenager in Arizona. If I haven't scared you off already, feel free to drop me a line. -Danielle
E-mail: crimsonenrapture@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Occupation: Student
Age: 18
AIM: RaincoatEaster
Member Since: September 24, 2005
Answers: 559
Last Update: July 27, 2006
Visitors: 46855

Main Categories:
Love Life
General Sex Questions
Theater
View All

Favorite Columnists
TheHeadHonchoPoncho57
DangerNerd
SilentOne
NinjaNeer
Erinn_the_bamf
SaturnMoonie
alisonmarie
TimmyTM
hailebop
Mackenzie
HeartsLiesFriends
more...
The guy that I like is about 25 pounds overweight and isnt athetlic at all. I asked him if he wanted to play tennis with me because I have been taking lessons. The whole time we played he critized me, saying mean things like "your stamina is terrible", what kind of lessons have you been taking", and " I thought you would have been way better". He was really upsetting me so finally I said that I was still learning and to give me a break. The thing was that he was a lot worse than me, and I was trying to say nice things to encourage me.
A couple days later he told me that he thought I should lose 15 pounds. I am average, not fat. He is way more overweight than me and I have never said anything to him because I know it would just hurt him. My feelings were very hurt with all his negativity. Should I move on? (link)
You have every right to say to him "look who's freaking talking!"... I know it's not considered "mature" to stoop to his level but he has no right to critisize your weight, even if he happened to be skinny.

DEFINITELY move on. This guy is too insecure and not worth your time at all. He preys on your confidence because he can't find any of his own, and those people are just downers. Find someone who isn't so judgemental and hypocritical.


Rating: 5
Thankyou, this has really helped me. I think I deserve better, I just needed someone else to tell me!




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker