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I'm an 29 year old guy.
I'll always do my best to give well considered and sincere advice - give me your best shot. P.S. Don't be afraid to ask me private questions, I rarely spend a lot of time answering non-private questions.

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do u think 13 is too young?

(Private question)
Sorry if I'm a little short, but if this weren't a private question I would refrain from answering it due to lack of information.
Too young for WHAT?
For the subject of this post, I will presume you are female, forgive me if I'm wrong, but most people asking questions about age on here are.

Too young to smoke?
Yes. By 13, you're probably not old enough to realise that you don't need to smoke. You don't have to conform to peer pressure, it's addictive, and costs too much money. There is no purpose to smoking, except to gain a small amount of pleasure far outweighed by the eventual misery it will cause you later in life when you are coughing up the tar from all those years of smoking, and having lung mouth and throat cancers cut out.

Too young to have sex?
Probably, but then this is subjective. If he's more than 14, YES, it is too young, because if he is that much older than you, then he is most likely taking advantage of you. If he's over 17 (depends where you live), not only is it very morally wrong for him, but it's also illegal. If you're both under age, then it's not illegal, as far as I know.
Unless you are a very well developed young person, I would not recommend having sex as young as 13. It's very difficult to judge at that age whether you will regret it later in life. If the person you have sex with is inconsiderate, it can have bad effects on your sex-life further on, like bad memories during sex with someone you really like. Also, it is easy to be taken advantage of, and at 13 it's harder to do anything about it if things go wrong. If he/she (Rather hard for girls to rape guys) raped you for instance you would have to go through hell in any court, and they probably wouldn't do anything to him.
In all, it's possible that if the guy you had sex with was the same age, and was a god guy, AND USED A CONDOM (The best way to screw your life up is to get/or get someone else pregnant that young) - that things would turn out fine. But it's much more likely that things will go wrong, and it will be a bad thing you will remember for the rest of your life.

Too young to die?
Yes. There is no point in killing yourself. If you're depressed, and you feel like killing yourself, please send me another question. As I believe the question you were asking was about sex, I won't answer this question unless you ask me again. That said, if you are feeling down, please, please send me a question, an email, anything you like. Anything you say I'll hold in confidence, but if you ask a question on advicenators the only way I will be able to answer is to send it through, and I don't remember if they show up on my column.

Too young to kiss?
No, kissing is fine. There aren't so many diseases around that you can catch by kissing, and very few that you can catch by kissing someone who seems healthy. Then again, it's easy enough to catch colds and flus through kissing. If you're in a bird flu affected area, I wouldn't go around kissing chickens, or coughing people, but HEY what the hell, right?
Kissing is a fun, and not too dangerous. Unfortunately, it often leads to sex.

Too young to go bungee jumping?
Nobody is too young to go bungee jumping.

Ok, well if you weren't asking about sex, then I would ask that next time you private question me that you be a little more specific please.

-K

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, sorry about low info, lol, parent was waching. =D And i think ill pass on kissing chickens and bungee jumping! lol, again thank you sooo much! -cj
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