I like fairies (thus why I am wearing fairy wings in the picture). Good grammar rocks, too. It doesn't have to be perfect but I get frustrated when people completely disregard it. I like every color except pink. I hate the wind. Sometimes, I carry around a little teddy bear I found at an antique store. His name is Robert. I dress very eccentrically. It's not unusual for me to wear a prairie dress one day and a Mod dress (think Austin powers) the next. I don't dye my hair, or wear much make-up. I think it's sad that no one puts any emphasis on natural beauty anymore. I think it's a good thing to be open and educated about sex and other issues that are considered taboo. I have a hard time seeing where homophobics are coming from.
Basically, I'm just some weird teenager in Arizona. If I haven't scared you off already, feel free to drop me a line. -Danielle
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hey im a guy...and no im not planning on getting an abortion. i was just wondering something: why is it that girls/women abort children instead of adopt them? i know there are plenty of reasons why, but is there one (or more) that would overshadow the case of giving birth then putting the baby up for adoption. looking for a girls point of view on this, because even if the girl didn't want the baby, would there be something wrong in giving it away instead of killing it? thanks, will rate. (link)
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I know a lot of us are pretty stupid, but I'm pretty sure the "no im not planning on getting an abortion" statement falls into the "no shit" category.
I'm not defending or condoning either side, these are just the facts as I see them.
From what I've heard, since I've never been pregnant, pregnancy can be very difficult and it wreaks total havoc with one's body. The woman is obligated to take care of herself so that the baby is not born with defects and it makes a woman have considerably less energy and a ton of other things. Some people just don't want to deal with that, or can't because of circumstances like their jobs. Selfish? Maybe, maybe not, but you can't judge because you are not that person and you will never know the whole situation or how it feels.
There are also a ton of other possibilities. Maybe it's a teenager whose dad will beat her if he finds out that she was ever pregnant and she's scared. Maybe someone would rather be rid of their baby than watch it be raised by someone else. It really all depends on the situation.
People have sex, and that is always how it is going to be. It's like anything else. I see people who drink excessively telling other people to consider the consequences of having sex, but then they turn around and do really stupid crap after they drink. Everyone does something at some point without considering that there are serious consequences. It does not make them a stupid or bad person, it makes them human. I can't explain why people do the things they do. It just happens, and no matter how much you like or dislike it, it will keep happening.
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