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i am 13 female and i think that i am lesbian. i dont want to be lesbian and i want to stop. how do i stop being lesbian? i havent make out with a girl yet but here are the things i like: 1)girls kissing. 2) "perfect" breast. 3) cute faces. and 4) hearing girls moan during sexual things. i think that the cute face and perfect breast thing is just me being insecure about myself but what about the other things? anyway how did i become lesbian in the first place? is it in my genes or something? i need help!!!!!
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There is a ton of grey area on this... because, while one of those people below was on the right track with saying that your hormones are raging at age 13 and lots of different things will turn you on, I've never agreed with the logic that someone as young as you couldn't know sexual orientation for sure. Because, let's face it, it seems like every other 13 year old is obsessed with the opposite sex, which means they "know" they're straight, right? So if all those kids can just know that they're straight, why can't gay kids not know they're gay?
On the other hand, there is also a lot of room for confusion at age 13, which is where you come in. I don't think you can always really be 100% sure of what you like until you experience it. If you experiment with a girl and you really like it, you still might not necessarily be a lesbian because you still might also like guys. Don't limit yourself with the labels of "lesbian," "bi," or "straight" at this point. Just take it as it comes. If you have a chance to hook up with a girl, and it feels right, don't not do it just because you've been taught it's wrong. Just do whatever makes you feel most comfortable. You're going to like what you're going to like, and you shouldn't beat yourself up for it. You won't be happy until you accept who you truly are, whatever that might entail.
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dang yours was long but also informational. so thanks a bunch!!
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