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ok the other day my g/f and i were making out and i dont know what got into me but i stuck my hand down her pants and she didnt like it. she was ok that i put it down there but not too far and one time i think i got a little too far cuz after that she seemed depressed. now i feel like a jerk. afterward she said she sortof liked it but im not sure. wut got into me and how can i make it up to her? by the way im 14.

Sometimes girls are shy. Like myself, if my boyfriend (if I had one :() were to do something unexpected like that, I would seriously freak out. Him being my boyfriend should know how I would feel when he does certain things, and for you to do that is totally out of order. In the same sense, you need to write her a letter and tell her how much you love her & how sorry you are for putting your hands down her pants. Tell her that you only wanted her to be comfortable around you, and you didn't know how she'd react to it. :)

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(Rating: 5) ive already done that except the right a letter, but ive called her countless times and apologized. she says its ok but it doesnt sound like that. she told me she actually enjoyed it, but i dont know if she is telling the truth.

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