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Well about 3 weeks ago i invited my boyfriend home while my mum was at work. (no need to remind me that im wrong). now i feel so guilty because ive done something like this behind my mum's back(i live alone with my mum). Even if i didnt make out with my boyfriend that night(i havent done it,im still a virgin)...but i've been feeling all those guilts inside me ever since.I cant even tell any of my friends..i'm scared..i've prayed alot for forgiveness from God....But i just dont know what to do anymore with those felling of guilts and ashame. by the way im 16 and can anyone help here? (link)
If you tell your mom, you'll feel a lot better and the guilt will go away. Tell her what you told us, that you feel really guilty that your boyfriend was over even though absolutely nothing happened. She'll either get really mad, or she'll be really happy that you were honest and up front with her. If she gets mad, she'll punish you and you'll feel like you got what you deserved and the guilt will leave, and if she's okay with it, you'll know that there's no reason to feel so guilty. Win win situation.

Really, you didn't do anything that wrong, you just feel badly for going against your mom's rules. Refrain from doing it in the future, not because it's necessarily a horrible thing to do, but because of the guilt it makes you feel. Good luck.


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Thanks alot for oyur advice u seem to really know what im going through. thanks alot...i do know taht i should tell my mum and i,m ready for any punishment but i just dont know how to spit it out




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