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I'm 14. I'ma girl and I've been smoking for 2 years. Im a smoker and I like it and I know I'm not going to quit. I'm tired of hiding it and I want to smoke in the house with my mom like she does. I just dont know the best way to tell her. Should I just say it or should i write her a letter.

**K8e

Haha, I remember when I told my mother! =] She was so mad at me, but in a way she understood because she started smoking when she was 13, and my dad started when he was 9. =] I came home SMELLING like smoke, and she knew most of my friends were smokers, and talked to me about it. Although at first she was pissed, we made jokes of it day after day I came home smelling like smoke. When she finally asked me, if I smoked or not, I told her yes & she said Thanks for finally telling me but I really want you to stop , and I think the only way that'll happen is if I stop & so does your dad. So, we all stopped - except my dad secretly smokes behind our backs all the time. =] But oh well. I think you should tell her face to face, because it'll make you look more mature. =) Just because writing her a letter seems kinda weird, she might get super mad about it, like all of it hitting her at once. But you could try the letter thing I suppose because you could tell her the reasons, how long you've been smoking, when you started, stuff like that. =] Yeah, go with the letter, because you'll get everything out at once!
♥ naimee

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for answering. I just saw my question got deleted. That really makes me feel bad.
K8e

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