naimee's advice column

Would you take offense if your gf/bf said that although they find you attractive, they would never want to see a "Picture" of you, or see you in your underwear? I'm sure you can guess of what nature.

My gf said this to me and I felt offended. I don't really know why. I guess it's no big deal, really. We were only kidding around and she said that. I'm pretty insecure about my looks, which doesn't help I suppose. So would you take offense, or am I making a big deal?

I personally don't think you're making a big deal out of it, but in a way I'd sort of take it as an offense. See, your girlfriend might be shy & she might be scared that if she sees you in your underwear or "it" she'll feel pressured into doing something that she doesn't want to do. It honestly depends on how long you've been dating, if it's like 1/2 months then you shouldn't be making a big deal out of it. But if it's like 6 months + maybe you should talk to her about it. & Reassure her that you aren't going to make her do anything she doesn't want to!

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(Rating: 5) You've helped me heaps. Thanks

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