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ok im 13 8th grade and this guy asked me to go with him.
i really dont know how to say no to guys.
I AM EXTREMLY NOT ATRACTED TO HIM.
and i dont want to go with him.
hes going to kiss me.
PLEASE HELP.
i rate 5s.

Maybe you could just go with him as a friend? But, tell him that just be like, "I'm willing to go with you, but I promised someone else that I'd be their date, so I'm just going to go with you as a friend." Or, if you have someone else on your mind then just tell him that you can't because someone else asked you first.

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