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K, I need help with 3 things actually:
1-I met this guy at a party, and at first I really didn't like him all that much, and I was really confused, and I seriously didn't know what I wanted, I was having a rough time with other things at the time... But then I decided, I liked the guy, and today he told me he likes this other girl and he doesn't like me at all... And I seriously don't know what to do, I'm just kind of tired of feeling hurt and let down by guys...
2-I also THINK I like this other guy, and I seriously think I could be really happy with him, but I don't know if he likes anyone, if he has a girlfriend, or if he'd even be interested in me "in that way".
3-I have this "friend"... and I stopped talking to her because we just didn't exactly feel the same about certain things... I thought we ended on good terms, but then I found out they have been saying REALLY mean things behind my back. Calling me fat and ugly and a bunch of other stuff. Which, from what she knows about me, is a seriously low blow. What should I do? Please help.
Number One: I know exactly what it's like to be in your situation & so do so many other people. It's going to be horrible especially since you realized at the end that he turned out to be a cool guy & you liked him. But seriously, life moves on & he's just going to be another one of those stupid guys. He's useless anyways if he actually tells you that he doesn't like you at all, he's seriously not worth it. Don't worry that much about it.
Number Two: You need to talk to this kid more and find out what his priorities are. Who he likes, what he wants in a girl, and then eventually you can tell him that you think you like him & he may like you back. Just get his screename/phone number & keep in contact with him! Just take things slow, and see what he likes & stuff!
Number Three: You definitely need to talk to her seriously about her calling you fat and ugly behind your back. See what she says, because it could just be one of those stupid rumor type things, you know? But if it turns out you KNOW shes saying these things. You shouldn't be friends with her. Friends definitely don't talk shit like that, especially like physical things. That's really rude & she's not even worth having any friends at all if she can't even tell you what she thinks about you to your face. (:
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, you're so sweetie, I seriously appreciate it! =]