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K, I need help with 3 things actually:
1-I met this guy at a party, and at first I really didn't like him all that much, and I was really confused, and I seriously didn't know what I wanted, I was having a rough time with other things at the time... But then I decided, I liked the guy, and today he told me he likes this other girl and he doesn't like me at all... And I seriously don't know what to do, I'm just kind of tired of feeling hurt and let down by guys...
2-I also THINK I like this other guy, and I seriously think I could be really happy with him, but I don't know if he likes anyone, if he has a girlfriend, or if he'd even be interested in me "in that way".
3-I have this "friend"... and I stopped talking to her because we just didn't exactly feel the same about certain things... I thought we ended on good terms, but then I found out they have been saying REALLY mean things behind my back. Calling me fat and ugly and a bunch of other stuff. Which, from what she knows about me, is a seriously low blow. What should I do? Please help.
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Okay for the first part... dont even worry about it..forget him.. most guys are so confused at what they really want...yea it may hurt your feelings for him to have let you down in such a bluntly honest wayy ... but at least he told you the truth and didnt just let you continue thinking that something might happen...
And for the second part... get to know this kidd a little more... find out his interests, ifhe indeed does have a girlfriend or not, and make sure that you are completely interested in him... if he doesnt have a girlfriend and you are positive that you like him and that you two could go far.. take the plunge and ask him out on a date or to just hang out with you and some friends... se how it goes from there .. but remember to remain confident..
***Kayla...
OK HAHA APPARENTLY I MISSED THE THIRD PART... :)
ok i say that you confront her about this .. that way she knows that your not afraid of her and that youve got somethings that youd like to say about her as well... tell her how you feel about her face TO face but dont be just as bad as she is and go telling the whole school her business... and if , when you confront her, she blows up and starts laying out all your business , by this point there will probably be a croud of people around you two, .. thats when you lay allll her sh!t out ....
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1- Well I would forget about this guy. I mean that's harsh telling some girl you don't like them like that at all. So he just sounds like a total jerk and a waste of your time.
2- Well even though your not sure how he likes you, try talkign to him some more. So at the same time, you'll both get to know eachother better. So he can see if he has feelings for you, and you can see if your "THINK" can turn to "KNOW". =]If you're too nervous to ask him who he likes and everything, try asking his friends or having your friends find out for you. =] But it's always best just to do it yourself. Shows confidence and it's just easier to do. =] And maybe you should tell him you kinda like him so then if he IS interested, he won't be afraid to tell you.
3- You should talk to your "friend" again. Ask her why she is sayign the things she's saying and you thought you guys left on good terms. Tell her you aren't sayign anything bad about her, and if she has a problem with you, she should talk to you about it.. not spread stupid rumors around because that solves nothing. She just might still be mad because you don't want to be her friend anymore and that's her way of getting "revenge".
I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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How bout this. Screw the other guy because honestly that's harsh that he tells you he doesn't like you at all not even 1% but yeah I guess truth hurts but yeah don't worry about him. But this other guy.. hmm you need to talk to him ask him what he likes and you know just start up a conversation and maybe after a while when you guys really *know* each other you should ask him if he has any interests or feelings for you and tell him because you have feelings for him and that you can see yourself really happy with him and that he doesn't know what he's done inside your head. Meaning he made you happy, can't breathe sometimes because you keep thinking about him, lose your path because you see him walking through the middle of it and your eyes magically follow where he's going instead of your own path. Ya* know things like that. Hope I helped.
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Number One: I know exactly what it's like to be in your situation & so do so many other people. It's going to be horrible especially since you realized at the end that he turned out to be a cool guy & you liked him. But seriously, life moves on & he's just going to be another one of those stupid guys. He's useless anyways if he actually tells you that he doesn't like you at all, he's seriously not worth it. Don't worry that much about it.
Number Two: You need to talk to this kid more and find out what his priorities are. Who he likes, what he wants in a girl, and then eventually you can tell him that you think you like him & he may like you back. Just get his screename/phone number & keep in contact with him! Just take things slow, and see what he likes & stuff!
Number Three: You definitely need to talk to her seriously about her calling you fat and ugly behind your back. See what she says, because it could just be one of those stupid rumor type things, you know? But if it turns out you KNOW shes saying these things. You shouldn't be friends with her. Friends definitely don't talk shit like that, especially like physical things. That's really rude & she's not even worth having any friends at all if she can't even tell you what she thinks about you to your face. (:
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