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this might be long but i realy have a problem
me and my friend had been best friends since 4th grade and have been there for each other through thick and thin. last year around febuary she moved to a different state.. but we still talked every day. everything was going good up until the middle of october... when i would call her but she wouldnt call back, and shed say she was watching a tv show or was too tired.. well that got old pretty fast, so i sent her something that was like you act like you dont care about me anymore and i get a 'you know i care' we got into a big discussion because whenever we'd talk for a little bit it would be about her... so for a couple weeks we hadnt talked, and then we finally did when i called her and it turned into a hour of crying and saying she still cared. we got off the phone and she said shed call me tomorrow, suprise suprise i didnt get a call. ive tried making casual conversation with her but she is always busy and has to go. then a week later i get a text asking why i havent called her and 'you say im not being a good friend' then it just got into a war and how im making a huge deal out of this... and she turned all of this around to be my fault when i dont think it is.. finally i just told her id have my cell whenever she wanted to talk.
i havent talked to her since and whenever i try to say something shes always like sorry im doing something brb its just stupid and im not sure what to do its like she doesnt want to even be friends with me anymore randomly. she doesnt even im me when were both on... i just dont know what i should do so if anyone has any suggestions let me know... thank you
14/f
She's probably just got a lot on her mind. Seriously, like I just moved and left all of my friends, and they are constantly calling, IMing, sending me letters & everything. It's nice to know they miss me and stuff, but seriously sometimes I just don't have time to talk. & I don't want to have to explain to them I'm too busy to talk to them because I don't want them to hate me. So I may come off a bit rude.
Although I know what it's like to be in your position. When my friend moved away from me, she did the exact same thing to me, and it really made me mad. Until I moved I didn't realize why she wouldn't keep in touch w/ me. You need to write her a super long letter explaining how you miss how things used to be. Tell her that you think it's unfair the way she's treating you & you want to be happy for her, but at the same time she should have feelings towards you. She should want to talk to you.
Or you could, just give her the cold shoulder for a while. Then see if she talks to you or like misses you so much she NEEDS to IM you and all that stuff.
other then that, just give her some time. she'll come back, no worries.
(Rating: 5) aww thank you so much that made me feel better... im not sure what im going to do yet... but thank you soo much seriously