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last year i lost a rgoup of friends. i met other ppl and i loved my new friends. now they left me and i have no idea why. they tell me that i was bitchy and that i hurt them and that i needed to change and be nice and love them. i do love them and i know i was a bithc and i know i need to change but i cant do it without them helping me. i am hurt and i cant stop crying. i love them all so much but they left. i dont know what to do.

Hey ♥
You don't need them to help you change. You can change on your own. Simple ways that you can gain your friends back are just by doing nice deeds for them. Smile at them all the time, help them & learn from your mistakes. Obviously this is making you upset, you need to talk to them all individually and ask them what they would like to change about you. If you're "bitchy" then you need to change your attitude. If you love your friends, you wouldn't act bitchy to them, right? You just need to be a lot nicer & be there for them. As much as you'd like to tell yourself that you weren't bitchy & stuff, if the group is all telling you that you were. Then you were bitchy - you just need to change your attitude & start being nice. Good luck.
♥♥ naimee

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(Rating: 5) u know what...its freakin 5 in the mornin where i am....so im to lazy to giv u anything else, heres a 5
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