naimee's advice column

My best friend, well, both of us, have dealt with death alot in the past year. and now her mom is incredibly sick! i dont know how to help her or give her advice! i'm so scared, for the both of us,..and her mom is someone that i'm really close to as well and when she dies, my best friend is gonna need me but i dont know what to say,...anybody got any idea?! i need them ASAP

GIVE ME SMARTASS ANSWER, YOU'LL GO TO HELL I SWEAR!

Hey ♥
When her mother dies, give her a few days alone to be with her family. Unless she's the type of person to do harmful things to herself, then you need to be with her as much as possible. I've never had to deal with death yet in my entire life. So I can't give you advice on something that I did, but if I were in your situation, I'd give her a few days to cool off & then about a week later or so, just invite her out to try and take her mind off of the death of her mother. Talk to her and tell her you'll always be there for her ANYTIME, she needs to talk - reassure her that you're her best friend and no matter what happens you'll always be there for her. Just make sure she knows that she can talk to you anytime she needs to. I'm sorry -- I hope everything goes okay for yall.
♥♥ naimee

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(Rating: 5) thank you,...you wont believe how many people wouldnt take me seriously

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