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Hi guys.
Sorry if this is really long...i rate high.
Alrighty.
Well i have a boyfriend and i love him to death. We've been together for over 3 months and ever since ive knwn him he never EVER talks about his problems.
If i know somehtings wrong he'll say things like.."Its not important" or "Its nothing" when i can seeeee that its bothering him a lot. I want him to know that he doesnt need to act all tough around me. And i need him to know that he can talk to me about anything. I just dont know what to say to him.
Ive tried the usual..."you know im always here for you" and all that and he says he knows but it doesnt change anything.
Do you guys have anything i could say or do that would get him to know that im always there...and ready to listen?
Any advice is great advice!!
Thanks...
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I know a guy who was just like that to me. I'd tell him all my problems, and stuff, but he would never tell me any of his. I knew a lot was bugging him & everything. And i'd ask whats wrong? and he'd be like its nothing. And i never could get him to open up. There isnt much you can say to make him open up to you. Tell him you want to hear whats going on with him and its important to you. But your not going to pressure him to tell you. That may not work, but i think you should say it anyway. He knows you are there and im sure if he's ready he will tell you. Sometimes guys are like that. Sometimes the problem is too much to handle and they dont want to tell anyone. Or maybe he doesnt want to worry you. Or bother you with his problems.

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