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About two years ago, I met a wonderful boy. We flirted and had fun together all summer. Eventually we dated or "went out" as everyone calls it. No one thought it would last. But it did. For a whole year. And through that year, I did something I never thought I could do. I gave my heart to someone and trusted them not to brake it. I became infatuated with a single soul and I fell in love harder than i ever thought I could. I let myself love without worrying about what would happen when it ended. I changed. I learned, I lived, I loved.
It all ended this year at the beginning. It hit me hard in the worst possible way. We stopped talking and when we get close, its awkward. Now, a year later - I'm still madly in love with him. And everyone said "it's his loss." But since that day, I've smiled less, laughed less, and everytime I see him, I want to run up and hug him thinking everything is the same. I changed all over again. And... I spend everyday thinking and imagining the day my baby comes back to me. So no, it's not just his loss... it's mine too.
I miss him and I will aiways love him.
Do you have any tips on how to get him back. I'm so down on myself and I just need a boost. If you can help, I would appreciate it.
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Well to be honest, almost every question I gave advice to was coming from my past experiences. But I think the least I could do is make you feel better about yourself. I've been through that too. My first love was with a guy named "Paul" I thought he was the only guy I would be with. But I found out he was just a liar and a cheater so I broke up with him twice. And for almost a year after that I still felt that I loved him. But then I met someone new and we started talking and right now we are doing great almost a year for me and him and wow what an interesting, amazing year it has been. Just remember if he wants you he'll come back but if he doesn't come back he's not worth it, but still. I just say to myself when a guy does something wrong that hurts me, that guys suck ass and chicks rock. Just remember your more important than anybody else around you. I would think about that and try to talk to that guy and if he rejects you just look back on the good times and move on, I know it's easier to type it than to actually do it (I've been there too). But I would try talking to him and telling him you still love him and have strong feelings for him and how you feel. It sounds like you have strong feelings for him just by me reading what you said. I might not understand that well about your situation but I know that I would talk to him. Just think he may want you he's just like you and afraid to show it or tell it. Hope I helped.. Good luck I hope you'll be ok if your not ask me for some more help if you want. ( Oh yeah tell him you love him, and that you will always love him and you only want to be with him. And that he's the one that changed your life and changed who you are.)
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