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Q: Ever since I was a little kid, for some reason, no one respected me. From 3rd-8th grade people made fun of me non stop. My 3rd and 5th grade teachers hated me, and many of my 7th and 8th grade teachers hated me too. From 9th-11th grade, people made fun of me "just kidding around" whenever I am with my friends they don't treat me with respect. The only real friend I have right now is my sister, and tonight for some reason she didn't want to hang out with me tonight, but she did want to hang out with her other friend. That is the last straw. I really don't know what to do. I am so lonely, and I am such a nice person! I have never had a boyfriend and I just feel like my childhood is being flushed down the drain. Due to people constantly making fun of me, I have ABSOLUTELY no confidence to go out and meet new people. I just don't know what to do anymore, I can't go on like this. I need to be a normal 17 year old girl. Can someone help?

Awww!
This is really sad. But the truth is you have JUST as much luck meeting new people as anyone else on this planet. You need to raise your self esteem. I don't care what people say about ME. I just walk on by. But most of the time, I find something wrong about THAT person and keep picking on him/her. Find stuff you can pick on that person about, and they will leave you alone.

Don't worry about what anyone says about your appearance. I don't look great and people tease me too! They tease me about my clothes and my style. I don't care. This is ME! I'm proud to be me and I wouldn't want to be anyone else!

You need to have the same confidence because you shouldn't change for anyone. Don't listen to what people say about you and don't let it get to you.

When people say stuff about you and they see that you're sad, they do it more. When they see that you're ignoring them, they get bored with trying to make your life miserable!

You don't need to be neglected like this... nobody should have to live like that, especially at school, where you go to learn and get an education!

What people say about you at school shouldn't affect the way you live at home. You shouldn't go on thinking that you're not good enough for the people who say you aren't good enough.

It's not fair to you and YOU don't have to live like that.

I used to get made fun of and I couldn't take it anymore so I fled. I switched schools, which I shouldn't have done because people know that making fun of me worked!

It's not easy being in school with all these people with different oppinions about you. Sometimes, one person hates you and they get other people to hate you and they get more people to hate you and they spread mean and nasty lies about you but that's just them. At least YOU know it's not true and you can honestly say that and if they don't believe you, who cares?

Everybody has different minds and oppinions and if one person doesn't like you, they get other people to not like you. Do NOT let ANY of their junk get to you. Once they see it hurting you, they are satisfied and they get what they want.

If they KNOW it's not bothering you one bit, they are going to be bored with trying to make your life a living Hell.

Trust me on this!

Nobody said school was easy but that's LIFE!

Well, you know where I am if you need me. If yu need to talk about something or someONE, email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com O.K?
I'm here for you to take ANY question you have for me. You don't even have to tell me who you are. Just ask me questions. I don't care! :-)

Best of luck! ♥

Hope I helped! ♥

♥ Kayla