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okay i still love my x boyfriend but everytime i talk to him i always seem to have some reason to fight w/him..but i love him with all my heart? is it because i'm jealous that some other girl is going to come into his life and steal him away? i really need help because for the past 4 months i can't seem to get over him..we've dated 2 times but it never worked out..cause we fight all the time..he used to start the fight but now it's me who does..i love him so much! and i just wish that i could understand why i start fights with him..i've told him before that i'd rather have bad times with him than good times with anyone else..and we've both admited that we love fighting with each other because we ALWAYS make up. i can't understand why i like it though..please help me!! thanks
I think, (and I hope I'm not diving into psychoanalysis too much here) that you might like to fight with him because it creates a need to go back to him, like, when you make up each time, he and you are even sweeter to eachother. A fight can keep emotions and excitement high, which might make you feel like you're in love, but that's not what a true relationship is based on.
A true relationship is give and take, with each of you making some compromises for the other. You should know eachother well enough to have absolute, unquestionable trust in eachother, and should make eachother feel less self-conscious and more connected to life than ever before. If it's real love, you may not always feel the fireworks, breathless excitement, but you will always be there for eachother, through lighthearted and heavy things in life.
Btw, the reason you could be starting fights with him now is because you don't want him to see how hurt you are? Tell him, and tell him that you really don't want to get in fights all the time with him, and see what he says. Hope this helps, ask for advice anytime.
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thanks for the advice
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