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Q: hey i been friends with Ashely for about 6 years and we are best friends and we were going out to dinner and a movie with group of friends and i pick here up and i walk in and i show her cuting her self and her dad and mom was not home i dont want Ashely to get her or i know some times u can die from cutting your self do u think i should tell some one or just keep it to myself?
Hey!
She shouldn't be cutting herself and she CAN get hurt. You HAVE to tell someone about it. If you don't, she'll continue doing it and she could seriously hurt herself or even kill herself.

The reason why she does it is because that is the only pain she can control and you need to show herthat you care about her and don't want her dead or hurt in any way. If she does not believe you or does not listen to you, tell an adult like her mom, dad, or guardian.

It's the best thing you can do at a time like this. I think it's good that you really care about her and you're not leaving this alone. That's good. If she refuses to stop, don't give up on trying. Try everything you can to convince her that you love her as a friend and she could kill herself.

That would probably convince her that she's better than what she's doing and she needs to talk to YOU about it, rather than letting the anger out on herself. I'm really sorry and you know where I am if you want to talk or need more advice. Also, you can email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com O.K?

I guarentee you, in the end, it'll work. Don't worry and STAY STRONG! :-)

Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla ♥

thank ya

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