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Q: im 14/f and ive never really had a true relationship. i think its because people just see me as the nice girl. plus, im not the prettiest thing in the world. what should i do to get guys to notice me?

MizzNiceGirl
Honey,
true love doesn't REALLY start until you find someone that you think you can spend the rest of your life with. You SHOULD not pretend you're someone else, just to get attention from a guy. It' not right. You need to be who you are and just because you don't look the way a guy wants you to look, doesn't mean you aren't pretty. I don't want you to go around wearing thongs showing out of your EXTREMELY tight jeans and half shirts. That's NOT the way to get a guy. At least you haven't done that because other girls will call you names like slut and whore. You don't want that kind of reputation. Just because YOU don't think your pretty, doesn't mean a really hot guy thinks your not pretty. Everyone is beautiful to me. I think judging people on their looks is rude because how a person dresses reflects on how they're feeling and who they are. Some people dress in black because they like that color and people just assume they're gothic without even knowing them. I'm sorry to tell you that after all this reading, I have to tell that there is no specific way to get a guy to notice you. You CAN'T be something you're not, and you CAN'T change just because a guy wants you to. All I can tell you is be WHO YOU ARE and don't ever change because it's YOU that guys are attracted to, not your hair or your clothes. It's O.K to just be MizzNiceGirl. You don't have to be someone else... if you want to talk about something off topic or need more advice, you can ask me a question in my advicenators inbox OR you can email me at kitty_kats123@yahoo.com O.K?
Best of luck!
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