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Q: i am a 16yr old girl, and i havent been in a relationship recently bc i was raped/abused by my ex. and honestly im afraid of being in a relationship because of the past. i know i shouldnt let that effect anything in the future, because its done and over with... but i cant help to think what happens if someone hurts me again like my ex? and i no not every one on this planet is a sick minded freak like my ex was... but i cant help to wonder. there are numerous guys who like me, including 2 of my ex/bfs, who treated me with so much respect... but there is another guy who does like me, and i guess i like him too... but hes not really my type... hes sort of a dork, and yeahh. i know that doesnt matter, what im getting at is, if i do choose any of these, how do i make sure they wont hurt me like my other ex, and who do i pick??
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Well,
that, to me, seems horrifying! But the truth is... you can't dwell on it for the rest of your life. No matter what, you're going to get married and have kids. Just be thankful you're alive. Usually, people like him rape you... and then they kill you so you won't tell the police! You're still living your life... if I were you, I wouldn't pick anyone that KNOWS your exboyfriend. I would get someone who treats you right with respect and kindness that you deserve, someone who calls you just to say he loves you, someone who can't go a night without calling to say goodnight, someone that cares about so much that he willing to do just about anything to protect your life. That's what type of person you need. You shouldn't pick anyone that knows your ex because then, if that person breaks up with you, they'll probably go back to your ex and talk about you... trust me, you don't want that to happen. It probably won't but you'd rather be safe than sorry, right?
Hope I helped!
Make the right choice!
Best of luck!
View my column!
~~~Kayla~~~
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thank you so much for your time :)
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