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I normally do not ask questions about guys on this site, but I just have no clue what to do.

My situation is that my boyfriend went out with this girl from his camp last year (they broke up b/c they wouldn't see eachother for a whole year). Well, this year he is going back to camp (she is too), and the camp holds a hotdog/hamburger barbeque thing where everyone pretty much has a date (although it's not neccasary to have a date, but everyone does have one). He asked me if he could go with this girl from last year. He told me that he "sort of" wanted to go with her (I'm guessing this is my language for "I want to go with her but I don't want to seem to eager about it b/c it will probably make you mad"). My problem is that I am afraid he is going to start liking her again, and I won't be able to do anything about it (after all, I will be miles away; I won't be able to stop them flirting or anything). I am just scared of losing this great guy.

My question is- am I being jealous and should I let him go with this girl to the barbeque? Or do I have a good reason to be worried?

Thanks I appreciate any answers!

only you can answer your question. i mean, do you trust your boyfriend? if you do trust him, you should have no reason to be worried, but if you dont, thats a bad sign. think about his history, does he do stuff like that alot? i mean, you cant stop him from liking someone else even if youre right in front of him, if its going to happen its going to happen no matter how much you try to stop it. i think you should let him ask her, and if he still wants you by the time he comes back, thats fantastic. if he doesnt, thats something you need to know anyway. i know this probably wasnt what you wanted to hear but i hope it helped somewhat. i really hope everything works out for you!

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(Rating: 5) Wow thanks...you really helped me. I wish I could rate you higher than a 5! But thanks!

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