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Q: Okay i have this really big jealously problem... i mean i don't get jealous but when people try to make me jealous i get REALLY REALLY MAD!! i dont' know why i get that way... but okay here's the story

On my class trip i liked this guy and i didn't like him anymore lets call him Billy well billy i think liked me and he sat by this girl lets call her nina well on the way back home nina and billy were sitting really reallly close and billy had his arm around her... nina is just like a slut and lets guys do whatever they want .. well i was sitting on the floor and he kept on looking at me to see if i saw what he was doing!!! it got me so mad!! i moved up to the front and started like yelling to my friends and telling them i was going to f****** kill him (haha i know a little out of hand) but i guess my question is .. is there a certain way why i get that way? or do i need some anger management!!!! lol

ps. sorry so long!
Jealousy is normal, especially when a guy you likes doesn't like you back. Sometimes, they do like you but they don't want to break up with their girlfriends because they are easy to get into their pants. The reason why he isn't going out with you yet is because you're smart and you're not what he's looking for... he's an idiot... he wants a slut and you're not that. You get jealous because of it. Because Nina dresses and acts the way she does, it attracts more guys and guys think she is easy... that is how dressing seriously effects your reputation. You're a smart girl and jealousy is normal... don't worry about it. You want Billy but he doesn't want you because he knows you're not as easy... you're the "hard to get" kind of girl. You're the "you gotta know me inside, and I don't mean inside my pants" kinda gal... you know? You're way too good for him... THERE'S PLENTY MORE FISH IN THE SEA and there's a really hot guy out there lookin' for someone JUST LIKE YOU and guess what? He's better than Billy. Forget him! He's a jerk. He wants to brag and he's TRYING to make you jealous... once he sees his plan is working, he's happy. Don't let him see your jealousy. You find someone else and make HIM jealous. Let him know who's boss and that he's not so great. He'll know! LOL. Well, Best of luck, sweetie.
~~~Kayla~~~

aww thank you so much! your too sweet!! i wish i could score higher!! you gave the best advice i got yet!

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