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Q: Hi. I'm 15, I weigh 120 pounds, I'm 5'4, and I do have to admit that the pounds are fat not muscle. But I wouldn't say I'm HUGE just chubby. Well my family are all very thin. My 17 yr. old sister is 110 pds, my 13 yr old sister is 100 pounds, my mom weighed 103 pounds when she was married at age 25! (the only reason she weighs more than me today is because she had kids), and my dad weighs...well he's a stick for a guy. I get my looks from my Aunt and Grandpa. I just recently joined a gym to help turn the fat to muscle more, to tone myself. But the problem lies in the family. They always call me fat. Like my sisters, if they get upset with me, they hurl the insult "your fat" at me. My parents both call me fat also. I don't think they mean any harm of it, but it really hurts. Every time someone says something I retreat to my room and cry. They don't know how much it hurts because I really do think I'm FAT. Finally today I just broke down crying and told them how I felt about them always calling me fat and my mom said I was just trying to get pity. What can I say to make them realise this really hurts my feelings when they all say this! The only persons who apologized for calling me fat is my little sister. I have 0 self esteem and I think this plays a small part in this.
if u want 2 lose weight.This is a funny way to lose weight.I read about o VJ who had nighmares of being chased regularly.He ate as much as 5-6 people but he was not fat because he had nightmares.Your brain burns up calories just imaginig you are running.The brain needs fuel.Stick monster pictures in your room,by the morning you will have burned up some calories.
If you do not believe me take up swimming or tennis somthing fun.If the word diet comes to your head type anorexia or bullimia in google or a search site weight.At least try it


lol that was funny I'll be sure to try that!

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