I'm 16, i get told i'm pretty, 5'3, 120lbs, brown hair and eyes, sophmore, friendly, funny, and i love just about everyone... ok well thats the 411 on me but theres a huge problem with it: I'm sick of being single! Ive been single for waaaayyyy too long now. I want a real relationship that lasts! I used to like this one guy who just got out of a really long relationship, so that obviously didnt work out so well... then i started liking this other guy who goes to another school (i still kinda like him now too but things are confusing) and i THINK he likes me too. He's let me drive his car w/o my permit, he's taken me to this romantic park that i really wanted to go to so i metioned it to him and he surprized me, he didnt smoke for a week because i dont like it, he's spontaneously stopped by my house to pick me up, he takes pics of me on his camera and he left a message on my phone last week saying that he was looking through them and seeing me made him happy so he thought he'd call me... basically hes done adorable things like that! but the problem his he has a gf that he got after i started having a thing for him... i heard about it before he talked to me about it and he said "do you think i was sober when i asked her out?? no.." and "youre better than her, thats why i'm more worried about you being mad right now than even being with her" but yet like 3 weeks later he's STILL going out with her. I have a feeling he likes me, but since i'm not a skank i wont do all the things that his "gf" will do with him (i wont do them especially because he has the gf now). I think that he's falling for me and my personality but he's still with her because he wants some.. but i dont want that at all! I want a boyfriend who will love me for me.. i dont want to get played!!! what should I do?? PLEASE
Basicly, you just told me that you know you're pretty and have a great personality :) If you want a boyfriend, why stress over this guy, it sounds like you could easily find someone else.
Yes, it sounds like he does like you, but in my opinion, he just doesn't like you enough. If he's dating someone else instead of you, he's clearly a moron :P I'm also concerned that, if he's just with this girl because she's willing to grant sexual favors, even if he did dump her for you, his intentions might not be so honorable. I don't think that's what you want. You've all ready stated that you don't do those things, and that's great. Don't stop respecting yourself. Ever. Besides, you said that you wanted to be with someone who loved you for being you. And you deserve someone who does!
I say, forget this guy. Give your attention to someone else. Someone worthy.
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easier said than done...
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