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Ok, I have this friend and she really lies a lot and like I have told her many times before to be honest and she's like yeah I'm honest! But like 2 other chicks have also been her friends and she's also lied to them. So like now we have formed a group and like we talk to her but we make sure that she never talks to us alone like one to one. But we don't know hwo to tell her that she's lieing to us and to just fucking stop it. Help me please.
I have known a few people like your friend. I like to call them "chronic liars." It's not that they are bad people, they normally have some deeper issues that cause them to do this. For example: I had a friend who would make up the most outrageous stories. Eventually, we came to the conclusion that she was lying for attention. Her parents had divorced when she was a child, and she still wasn't over it.
You can try talking to her, you can try to find out why she does what she does, and what her motivation is. If it doesn't work, then she might be one friend that you need to drop. I am very sorry to say this, but I believe that a friendship can't exist without trust. If you can't trust her enough to even be alone around her, where do you think that this friendship is going?
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Yeah, well...she's filthy rich. So there's a theory...she's fucking spoiled! But like, I have dropped her. I talk to her a little bit, but like still no trust. Thanks...
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