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okay this is semi long so i am sorry but i really want advice: my mom died when i was 3 and i went to SO MUCH counseling. family,alone you name it. i stopped around the end of 3rd grade. but now that i am a teenager i realize how much i want/need a mother figure. i have my grandmother and i love her dearly but its not the same. i try to talk to my friends but they cant really relate and i feel bad making my problems their problems. i sort of want to go back to counseling but it costs SO MUCH and i am not sure i need it....
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Well, counseling or not, you need a confidant. You need someone you can confide in, an adult figure, a mother-figure, you can lean on. I can see how seeing a counselor has a stigma on it, and they're paid to hear you, so it just isn't the same... but is there someone, a teacher, a friend's mom, an aunt... someone? It isn't so much them becoming the mother you lost, but someone you can trust, someone you have strong ties to, someone that you feel comfortable with.
No matter what, though, I wish you luck in your search.
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thank you =] you give good advice. i rated it a 5
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