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I have never had a boy friend! Is that bad?? And I want one, but no one wants to go w/ me! Cause i am a tomboy! I like to skate and stuff like that! I personally think i imtate boys! Cause i can shoot a ball into a basketball and i play sports! Is this a bad thing? I am 13 and i have a lot of boy friends! I have one that is my bff and i like hima lot is that ok? Plzz i rate high!!

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Personally, I think that being a tomboy is cool and that is CERTAINLY not a problem. My little niece is fourteen and a tomboy. She was going through the same thing. She likes boys, though. She's (what do you young people call it these days?) boy-crazy. She talks about boys 24/7 but can never get oine of her own. I'm going to tell you what I told her. "You don't have to change your personality to get boys to like you. You don't have to make yourself girly to get boys to like you. Boys will come to you. There are probably 5 or 6 boys that like you but they're shy." You are not imitating boys. You're being yourself and if you keep doing that, boys will be lined up just to skake your hand. LOL. Well, best of luck. P.S. It's DEFINITLY not a bad thing that you like sports. In fact, in high school, guys like that in a girl! :-)
~~~Kayla~~~

Your are very kind! One prob. I am kinda of big! But i wear a 11 shoe size and i am 5'5!

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