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Last summer I met a guy and we started dating. We broke up three times and I'm still not over him. I really love him and he doesn't feel the same. He changes his girl almost every week and I can't cope with it anymore. I can't get over him, I've tried but I can't. I don't know what to do about it, I love him so much. (link)
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How can you love someone who doesn't love you back? You're enamored with him, you're infatuated with him... and yet this guy just floats from girl to girl - is he really worth your time? Look at how he treats his relationships... he has no respect, he pretty clearly doesn't care.
It sounds like you're in love with the thought of being in love more than you are actually in love with him. It is time to stop paying attetion to him - let it go, he's not worth your time.
EDIT:
I'm sorry that you didn't like what I had to say to you on this topic. I offered what I did because I've seen it time and time again, and lived it myself. Love IS a two-way street - love is built on trust and communication. You don't have that with him at all... you think you love him... I don't doubt that at all... but he clearly doesn't love you. And that pretty much kills it right there.
You need to move on, for the sake of your emotional health. You've the only one who can make that decision. There isn't really a magic techinque you can use to let you. It has to be a consious decision by you to realize that it is over and that you have to move on. Don't dwell on the past... don't reminisce of your relationship with him... think instead about the future and what possibilities it might hold.
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No, I love him. We were together for a while and I love him. You don't know me, how can you tell how I feel? Like I said, I have tried to let it go, that is why I asked the question, because I needed help on how to get over it.
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