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im a 16 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 months... we have had sex in the past btu today i let him take my anal virginity... and it hurt really bad... now i knwo the first time it will hurt that is just a given but will it always hurt? i want to do it again cuz the good feeling i got out of it was really good but the pain was really bad... will that eventually go away? i have one more question... i swore on my life i would never let anyone take my anal virginity but i let him to show him how comftorble i am with him and how much i love him but now im having the feeling somethings going to go wrong... am i just thinking to much because of the trust i put into him or what? im so confused please help? (link)
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Hey there. It is totally normal for it to hurt really bad. I wont always hurt. Just like your vagina, it will stretch a bit to fit in a penis, if you do it often. If you do it a couple of monthes at a time, it'll hurt a bit more because your not helping your body assume the forign body part. You shouldnt swear on your life you wont do certain sexual things, because you'll probley feel comfortable in doing them later on. You shouldnt have to do a sexual thing to prove to him your comfortable with him and that you love him. I mean, sex is something you do when you love someone, but its not something to prove your love to each other. The feeling that something is going to happen occurs all the time. I feel that way sometimes. You are thinking to much, one of the flaws of women is, in fact, thinking too much. We over analyze the litle things, and the big things and we begin to doubt the trust we put into men. I got through it all the time. If you ever have any trouble, please message me on here, or email me at this_sucks92@hotmail.com, and i'll help you out anytime. good question!
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