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Hiya,
I've had three boyfriends, all of whom were MAJOR crushes of mine. I was mad about them for ages (months and sometimes years) and took all my courage, told them how I felt and asked them out (one at a time obviously!). They all liked me back which was great but...once we started dating, with every single one of them, I just lost all feelings towards them and felt trapped. What do you think is going on? Am I in love with the idea of unrequited love? Or am I just not ready for a relationship...or what?
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ok this ones gonna be long...
OK, maybe you're just basing how much you "love" them on their looks. If thats the case when you say crush, you need to get to know what they look like inside, and not out.
If the above isnt the case, try getting to know a bunch of different guys and decide what your "type" is. Or maybe just experiment... go to a club and get sum numbers or talk to some guys. Dont be too picky, but have some limits.
I know that I am in love with being in love. I go all out with my guy, and thats ok. But if you decide that you dont like them at all anymore in the relationship, then maybe you just want to FEEL loved by a guy, or to have a guy around you. If thats it then... i dont know, work on it?
hope it helps
PS thanx for sayin im an angel ;)
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Lol, it's not the looks, I'm pretty proud of the fact that I always go for personality :D But I like that idea, of finding out what my type is...thanks, you helped loads, you're an angel! xXx
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