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Q: Ok, So I met this chick, and fell madly in love with her, but she didnt feel the same, so I had to work on her.. Finally we started going out, but it felt forced, and I told her this, so now she is acting all lovy dovy, like she actually fell in love with me.

But the problem is, with all the coldness she showed toward me.. I no longer love her, I only like as friends, IF that.. so I really dont know what to do, I don't want to hurt her, but I also dont want to be in a relationship with her.. Please Help me!

She sent me an email saying she seriously thought about breaking it off with me, and she was going to, till I finished work, and she realised how much she loved me.. but I'm not who I used to be around her, I don't miss her any more, I don't want to kiss her any more.. HELP!

It doesn't need to be love at first sight; a little work in relationships is always a good thing. It would be bad if you both loved eachother right off, before you even got to know eachothers' faults. If I were you, I wouldn't end it just yet. If your instincts were to be attracted to her, than maybe they were right. So tell her that you want to bring it down a level, and date just to get to know eachother more. It is important to start somewhere before you are immediately soulmates. LOL hope i helped- rate plz!

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I'm Mecca and i live in the UK, whereabouts you'll never know for certain. My hobbies are polo, singing, reading, and playing with my little brothers. I hope I can help you to any extent with your problems! So many of you have sure helped me with some of mine.