several years ago, I was best friends with this girl , we were each others confidant, and could tell anything to each other. The rest of the crowd really didn't matter if we were together. It was after a year of knowing her that I realized that I was absolutely in love with her. I didn't do anything at that point because I was in the middle of applying for school.
It's been a couple of years now, and I'm still in love with her. She went off to college in another state, and our lives have gone off in different directions. Her life has changed (she's popular, beautiful etc. which she wasn't in high school), so i don't talk to her anymore, but I still can't get her out of my mind. I haven't been able to date or even be interested in another girl- because I know that she was the one for me. We both graduate next year, and I'm wondering if I should just lay it all on the line, and offer her my heart. WHat do you think? I rate well. -LloydDobbler-
P.S. This is a really complicated story and if you want to help me beyond this, i'd appreciate it.
Think about this: Which would you rather have? A definite answer, or spend your life wondering what could have been? I think that you need to tell this girl how you feel. Whether she rejects you or not, you'll be glad you asked.
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thank you for your advice. I think that is the right way to go.
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