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hi...sorry if this is long.
well ages ago i met a guy and fell instantly in love with him. he liked me 2 but i didnt have the courage to tell me and now hes moved on. were like best friends now; we bonded alot when i was living back at home in america. i never got on with my mom and he understood that an kinda helped me through it.
my mom hated me a lot and blamed me for her and my dads divorce. we argued too much and she was always tellin me she wishes i was dead. this guy, lets call him adrian, helped me thru it and always made me feel lots better.
i moved to england to be with him (as a friend) and now my mom is ill and wants me to go back to america to look after her. i realy resent her and dont think i could look after her properly. im also scared that if i go, 'adrian' will meet someone while im away and fall in love...and i will never have a chance to tell him how i feel.
what should i do?
btw i had planned on tellin him how i feel just as i left on the plane...but that would be mean although it would give him time to think bout everythin. what do you think?
rose, 18 (link)
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ummm.... this is a hard one. Your mom actually sounds like a hypocrite. And if she's not deadly ill maybe you shouldnt go and tell 'Adrian' how you feel. Then you guys will be able to talk about it. I dont think that if you go tellin him before you go on the plane is good. That might make him feel like you'll never come back. Try tellin him a couple weeks before you leave, even if its hard for you... otherwise im not quite sure. Sorry about your mother, even if she does sound like a... nvm :D
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