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Q: 16/f
So I really like this guy and I want to talk to him about us... a lotta people who hang out with us think he likes me too... but I just don't know. I want to talk to him about it but I don't know how to bring it up without sounding really forward. I also don't want to mess up our friendship if he ends up not liking me. I don't want things to get weird when we hang out if I tell him I like him and then he doesn't like me back... so I guess I just want ideas on how to bring it up and talk about it and what I can do maybe to flirt more with him and things. I already flirt a lot with him... but more ideas might help.
-Karen
Hey, Karen. So, you like a guy and you THINK he likes you back but you're not sure? O.K. You WON'T sound forward if you bring it up. Give him like... a not or something. If you are shy, that is. First of all, how many people really tell you that he likes you. Some people at my high school (way back then- I'm 37) told me that a really cute boy liked me when he really didn't. They did it as a joke, though. Don't worry. If these people are your friends, trust them. But for now, trust me. I know. Tell him you want to talk to him. Then say, "So-and-so, I really like you." then, wait for a response. He'll most likely say, "I really like you too." Then, you say, "Some friends of mine told me that you wanted to go steady with me. Is this true." If there is an awkward silence after this santence, don't be alarmed. It's hard for guys too. He'll most likely say, "Yes, Karen. This is true." and that is how I married my husband! :) See? Beautiful relationship! Trust me, girl. He likes you but he's scared just like you. He's probably on this site saying, "I wanna talk to her about us" LOL I let you know when I answer his question. LOL Anyway, you'll do perfectly and PLEASE don't be mad at me if it doesn't work out, O.K? I can't predict the future but I CAN tell what the right thing to do would be. Luv ya lotz! XoXoXOXOOxOXOxOXOxXOXOOXOX
~~~Kayla~~~

Thanks! :) I'm just scared that he might not like me and I'm just a really random and weird person so I just like to be sarcastic and funny all the time...so I don't like being serious. So bringing things like this up is really hard for me

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