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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
please help!

of course it doesnt make you a lesbian... lesbian is where you dont want to be a with a male in a relationship (only friendship) but instead you want to be with a female.. for the part where you dont know what to think about yourself, I would call yourself an idiot.. because if someon caught wind of this.. some male who knew you or something.. it can get out of hand and rumours start forming and you are officially known as a lesbian.. even if you arent.. so you just gotta hope noone finds out ;)

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(Rating: 5) um.. thanx... i guess
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