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Okay , I like this guy, and he just told me that he likes me too, we have a problem. Me and him arent sure if we should start dating because Im friends with his sister, and his sister will NEVER buy the fact that me and him were dating...and we wouldnt be able to tell our parents because we wanna have sleep overs and stuff, but i mean we dont plan on doing anything at the sleep overs, we just wanna see each other because we live an hour away from each other, but anyways, my question is, should we date behind his sisters back or tell her with the fact we both know shes not gonna buy the whole thing...???

help :(

I rate everyone a 5

forget about his sister and parents for a min. and think to yourself is this a good idea? Is he the right guy for me? am i ganna do somthing wrong if i date him? and file out the goods and bads. What I like to do is put his name on a pice of paper and put a line in the middle of the paper on one side write all the good things about dating him and on the other side write all the bad things about dating him. Listen to your heart. Sit down and talk to your friend/his sister. I have a twin brother and I know it gets hard when people start dating him and there my friends but you have to think hes happy and hes making somone else happy tell her that. Good luck!! happy new year :D.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you so much :) I really like him a lot. :)

-Jenn
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