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Hey, I'm Elana... I'm 15 years old and I love to help people.. I know I know, everyone says that on this site, but I can be pretty good at giving advice sometimes. I'm into lots of sports, tennis, softball, and my new thing... Track, haha... I also dance, play piano (obviously) my saxophone (love it) and go online... A LOT! lol Random stuff about me: I'm 5'1 and a 1/2".. I LOVE music..favorite bands are: switchfoot, green day, rooney, foo fighters, stone temple pilots, and any jazz music, my friends and family mean so much to me, things don't always go the way I want them to..(when does it ever work like that?) bowling rocks my world!! haha even if I suck! :) I'm extremely energetic and bouncy as my friends know, and I like to laugh, at anything...
If you need any advice at all just drop a question for me or IM me and I'll try to answer as best I can... thanks!
~Lana
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Hey, it's Siren here...my best bud and I have known each other for 13 years. We're both seniors in high school. All of a sudden, this year, I feel like we just...split. I can't talk to her about the important things in my life the way I can talk to my other friends. Like, a couple of my friends from band and I - well, I guess - bonded one night and I feel like I can talk to them more than I can talk to her, and I've only known them for 2 years. I can talk to them about things like french kissing with pop rocks (just an example, lol) and if I tried to talk to her about it, she'd just go "oh...um, okay," and change the subject or something. She's always been a little less mature than me, I suppose, even if she is a year older than me. But it's never bothered me until now. I want to be able to talk to her about these kinds of things, but I can't, and it's bothering me. Because of it, we're pretty much splitting. It really sucks because we used to be like sisters. She used to know all my secrets. Now only one person does, and it's not her. I wish it was, though. I mean, I miss being able to talk to her about anything. Help if you can?
-Siren =(
Aww.. I know how you feel! This year my best friend and I definitely started to drift too.. I really miss her but then all of a sudden- today we started hanging out again and talking, for whatever reason we kinda re-bonded.. not that i think everything's gonna change but it might be a little better now. I would talk to your friend about all this because chances are.. she's feeling the exact same way you are. A friendship goes 2 ways and I'm sure she misses you too. Don't ever let a friendship die. Good luck with that if you need anything IM me anytime!
Happy Holidays!
~Lana
(Rating: 5) Thanks loads. I will talk to her. This is bothering me a lot more than I thought it was...
Happy holidays to you too. ^_^