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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!textarea.Skem9box {width:200px; height:100px;color:White;font-size:11pt;font-family:Times New Roman;background-color:Black;}
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I am a 16 yr old male and I have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months. I always wanted to have sex with her but she would never let me. I wanted it so bad, and then one day we finally had sex. The next weekend we did it again, but I am running into a problem. I can't seem to get hard enough. When I masturbate, I get hard, but then when I'm with her I can only get a little bit hard. I feel horrible and I don't know what to do? What can I do to get hard when I'm with her?
I know this may seem uncomfortable, but try masturbating while she is there. You shouldn't feel embarrassed and she shouldn't think its funny or anything because sex is supposed to be for mature people and masturbating and all them other types of foreplay are all just a part of sex. Another suggestion is, if she's okay with it maybe she should try giving you oral. Sometimes just kissing and feeling isn't enough to get a guy going, don't feel bad about it. You're only 16 you are probably still discovering what your body's sexual needs are.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. You made me feel so much better.