I recently ran into a guy who I have known since we were little kids.It's been a long time since we've seen each other,and I always had a crush on him when we were young,and I didn't wanna let myself feel it again but when we ran into each other it brought back all those feelings.Anyway,my BFF,tho I love her,she...well,sleeps around a lot,and she right away started saying how hot this guy is and how much she wanted to *get* with him.I asked her to please not do anything with him because I do still like him,and it would hurt my feelings a lot.She said she can't guarantee that she couldn't do it,and that she's "taking a chance" with him.Basically,she's gonna go 4 it anyway.She says he told her he couldn't date me because it's me(meaning we go back so far as friends and our families were real tight).And she tells me he asked if it was ok if he called HER sometime.But when we were all hangin together he was acting interested in me and seemed...less than amused or interested by her.It's breaking my heart that she's gonna do this.The thought of them together makes me sick to my stomach.I've had nightmares,been unable to sit still,felt sick to my stomach,all because I'm so upset over this.But she says she basically doesn't care,and that she's not gonna fight and I can "take it how I want".What should I do? Even the mere idea that he would be into her is mind boggling to me,and especially cuz he really wasn't all actin like that,he kept huggin me and talkin about old times,and he even talked to my mom on the phone for God's sake!And the idea that he would ever be into her makes me feel sick.I cried all night last night and all morning this morning. HELP!!Thanks,I'll rate ya!
Aaaawww...Why is that girl your best friend???? First off, it's gross that she sleeps around. And second, it's really bitchy that she says she's gonna' try to have sex with the guy you're madly in love with, and that she doesn't care what you think. I think you need to talk one-on-one with the guy ASAP. Find out from him what's going on. Ask him if he likes your "friend", and tell him what she is planning to do. Tell him that you really care about him and don't want him to do that. And get a different best friend!!!
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Thanks!Yea I've heard the same thing from several people.I don't have a # for this guy,tho she claims she gave him my #.I do know where he works tho.Thanks again,I'm kind of at a loss right now!
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