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im a columnist... and it is way easier to give advice to other ppl then to urself..so can u guys help me out wit this one!! i have been friends with this guy for 3 years.. and the entire three years i have been in love with him... but now im confused b/c i think he is starting to like me again.. but the thing is is im moving on the day after turkey day... and im really gonna miss him.. more then he knows.. i just wish could figure out a way to tell him i love him before i leave.. but wait there is more... he talks to me and tries to get advice on this gurl and i get all shy and stuff cuz i dont wanna help him get a date w/ anuther girl... today he thought it was gonna be the last time he was gonna see me for a while so he hugged me and it was a really long hug.. like the one u give ur b/f when he is leaving for a week.. i started crying and he just gave me a kiss on the cheek and i went home.. now do u think he likes me...
p.s he told my friend last summer..sometimes he does and sometimes he dont... any help on what that might mean...
what it sounds like to me is that he's torn between liking you and not liking you. After all you are moving-i personally think he likes you but this is from an outsiders opinion so i don't know a whole lot about the situation. Maybe sometime this week you can make it a point to get together with him, for dinner, for lunch, or just to say good-bye. And be honest. Let him know what you are feeling for him and just pour it out-what have you got to lose? you're moving. At least now you can move without any regrets! And who knows-if he's really your perfect match you may run into him later in life when you least expect it-so savor the memories you have with him and move on for now. Stay strong-im so sorry you have to move when you finally find someone you like :0( Best of luck!!!
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Thnx...I get what ur saying but its not that easy to just go up to your best friend and tell him your in love with him!
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