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i really like this guy (i think im in love) but he is older than me and right now we dont go to the same school but next year we will, he likes me too but i want him to like think of me all the time and be like crazy about me before we go to the same school, but all the communication i get is over IM so what should i say that would make him like really happy and like me even more?
p.s.-he knows i like him but not really...like he thinks we are just friends and im happy with that and that i dont want to be more..but hes wrong...also he doesnt know i know he likes me
thanks so much
well 1st off that little statement "he knows i like him but not really" is the problem right there. he will never admit to you that he likes you if he is the slightest unsure on whether or not you truelly like him. so in order to get things going on the right track, you need to stop beating around the bush, and tell him exactly how you feel so you guys can be on the same page. also, you guys probably need to find a way to communicate more than just talking on IM. Atleast talk on the phone, you can't truelly feel a person if you never get to hear thier voice. and honestly, i dont think you could possibly be in love with this guy if you never see him or even hear his voice. you need the whole packcage in order to completely love someone. how can you possibly love him if you dont know everything he is about, from the way his eyes look when he stares in your eyes, to the way his face scrunches up when he taste something that isnt appealing to him. heck, you might hang out with him and realize there is alot of things you dont like about him. what you guys need is more communication so you can know eachother better, then you will know how you truelly feel.
(Rating: 5) thanks so much!