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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!
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Hey. I need some advice and you seem like you like helping people out so here i go:
I'm a sophomore and ever since last year, I have liked this guy in my high school and he has liked me back. However, this guy is a player. He goes out with many girls at the same time. He gets over all of them, yet he's never been able to get over me. He always asks me out and I always refuse him. Who would want to go out with a player and get hurt? He promises me that he'll change. Sadly, I caught him making out with another girl the day after. I was devastated. I sent him a letter that told him how I felt. In it I told him how stupid I felt for liking and caring so much about him for such a long time. I also told him I was sick of lies and false promises. I ended it by saying "don't write back or talk to me anymore...leave me alone, you've hurt me enough." That day I came home and started crying. I should feel better now that it's over, but I don't. The thought that he'll never talk to me again makes me sad. Even though he's broken my heart and played me from the very start, I can't help but keep liking him. Should I talk to him again? Should I keep trying to make "us" work out? Please let me know your honest answer.
honestly..some players canchange and some cant...but its up to them if they really want 2..n he doesnt seem like he does. he seemsl ike the kinda guy tht gets bored easily n will cheat on a girl in a heartbeat. its good tht u told him exactly how u felt! i think he does liek u sinse u said hes never been able to get over you, but he just doesnt wanna change. u did good by telling him how you felt, so give urself some props 4 tht bc it takes alot of courage 2 let some1 know tht they can and DID hurt you! maybe you shouldnt have said "dont talk to me anymore" bc you obviously care for this guy...maybe you just have 2 accept the fact tht the best relationship you can have with this guy is friendship. tlk 2 him n tell him you meant everything you said except the last part, but all you ever will be is friends. maybe one day he will change n u can be together, but until then dont set urself up for heartbreak! gl hun i hope i helped..n im srry he hurt u!!
(Rating: 5) Thanks for your advice. I'm not quite sure he'll change either. I am planning on talking to him again, since not doing so makes me feel bad. Thanks again, Ana.