lilangelshan08's advice column

hey, i'm not a very nice person if i get pissed off, but i've gone through a lot in my life so i think that i can give good advice on a lot of things. if anyone isn't sure that they can talk to someone because they don't understand then feel free to IM me on my AIM and i can talk to you, and i don't mind letting you guys know about my past.
*~*shan*~*

ps
(this is my favorite quote) "as long as you've got one person in the world, you've already betten the odds"

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Theres this guy..lets call him fred. Fred and I went out a lot and his friends don't like me at all and neither did his ex g/f's so we broke up. We stayed friends and then towards the end of the school year we seemed to drift apart. Just recently we started talking on the phone again (like for 2 hours at a time!) and I'm starting to develop really strong feelings for him again. When I tell him...he doesn't take me seriously anymore and tells me he loves me even though I know he doesn't really mean it the way I do. What do I do??
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it doesn't matter how his friends feel about you, or how your friends feel about him. follow your heart, i know it sounds cheesy but remember this no one can control your love life but you. there's only one real way to know if he is telling you the truth when he says that he loves you, and that's for him to look you in the eyes and be able to say with a straight face that he loves you. remember this one thing though, your friends may have your back but that doesn't mean that they are right when it comes to how you feel about a guy. your friends can't tell you who to love just be true to yourself and your heart and everything will be ok.
*~*shan*~*

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(Rating: 5) tHnx! ur right :)

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