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hey, i'm not a very nice person if i get pissed off, but i've gone through a lot in my life so i think that i can give good advice on a lot of things. if anyone isn't sure that they can talk to someone because they don't understand then feel free to IM me on my AIM and i can talk to you, and i don't mind letting you guys know about my past. *~*shan*~*
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(this is my favorite quote) "as long as you've got one person in the world, you've already betten the odds"
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My names not important, but i've been cutting myself alot lately. It's really hard to stop. It just seem's liek its there for me when I'm down or depressed. I really need help but I don't want to tell my family. My familys falling apart already as it is and I don't want to add stress to anyone. It's just hard to stop. It just feels like something to bounce back on. Anybody have advice on what I could do to stop cutting myself.. maybe something else to do instead of that.. I dont know. Thanks alot. (F/14)
-depressed
depressed, you may not believe me, but i know exactlly how you feel. i used to cut myself so much and i've got the scars to prove it, i've had a lot of problems in my life so i can relate. it's a good idea to talk to someone you might think that it will add stress to your family but they care about you and i'm sure that they would do anything they can to help you. this is what i did to help stop my cutting, i talked to my bestfriend and he told me something that i think might help you out, no matter what you might think or feel, someone loves and cares for you. you are not alone, another thing that i did to help myself stop is, i got a journal. now not everything i wrote was just thoughts some were poems, lists, or even doodles. just anything you're feeling or thinking you can write down, cutting is not your only option you can talk to someone or like i said get a journal and when you are feeling like you want to cut start writing and don't stop until you are feeling better. or hey another good thing to do would be do your most favorite activity like cooking, watching a movie, play a game, or come talk on the computer. and hey if you need someone to talk to, i'm here for you
*~*shan*~*
please don't lose hope you are special to someone and you are not alone
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for the advice :-) -Kayd.
You can ask me for advice if you need some too.
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